Every day we run across things that seem so coincidental. But are they really? Of course not! Life is a series of synchronicity that flows from the choices and thoughts that each of us has made… yep clear as mud!
Simply put you are the creator and things happen based on your truest thoughts and beliefs.
One caveat is that you create your experience, you cannot create for others – you can steer them and sometimes it’s your job to do so, but it’s not a given that they will follow your lead.
The way things fall into place and fit together in an absolutely perfect way is called synchronicity… being in sync. It happens every day, often without us even noticing.
Last week, my friend was trying to buy her perfect house. It was through an auction, so she had to have a certain amount of money in one bank account to confirm the purchase. She was $2,500 short. So I lent her the money and went back to my office. In the mail, I received a check from an assignment I had taken years earlier but never was paid. (I had written it off as an expensive lesson)… Guess what the amount was…. YEP! You guessed it … $2,500!
It makes me smile when I see the amazing universal laws at work like this. When you recognize it, just take a moment and appreciate it. The gratitude that you feel creates a ripple and brings your more synchronicity!
Cool… so what do I do with this information?
First, recognizing the connection is key… with awareness comes power. We stumble through life completely distracted. Take a moment and notice all the amazing signs and messages that are bombarding you from the universe. When you wake up in the morning having dreamed about a crow and then one appears on your way to work that morning… it’s a MESSAGE! There is a clear reason… it’s not just a distraction or coincidence. Appreciate the sign, even if you have no idea what it means. The more you acknowledge signs and messages the easier it becomes to decode them. Often a particular person will pop into my awareness – generally a person who I have not connect with recently. Then I run into them that afternoon on the street and they tell me they have been wanting to see me…. Again… not a coincidence… Synchronicity!
Second, start noticing your thoughts… some are not going to be in alignment with who you want to be.. Let’s start working on those and minimizing them. Have you noticed that when you worry incessantly about something – it happens… well, you are calling it in! If you take the time, to reframe those thoughts that are not supporting your vision of what you want and who you are, things shift. This is a perspective of gratitude. Think about, and focus on the best things in your life and you will notice that you start receiving and encountering more of that. Funny how that law of attraction thing works… that which you focus on comes to you. It’s obviously a bit more involved, but the overarching premise is perfectly true! Keep your thoughts and words aligned with what you want more of!
Third, identify what you want to fall into the flow with you…. Where do you want to go and what do you want to be? This goes a step farther than just thoughts; I am talking about your vision and your actions. If your dream is to visit Paris, then put a picture of the Eiffel Tower on your computer background and start playing French music at dinner. Create the feeling of already having your desires and you will start noticing where they show up for you. Create your own synchronicity, with your thoughts, actions, and vibration. Allow the universe to support you in this pursuit!
These are huge undertakings, so don’t hesitate to reach out, ask questions, and share your stories of synchronicity!
