Almost always, the universe has better foresight and a bigger picture view than you do, while you trudge through your human existence. Wow, that sounds really sufferable, but it doesn’t have to be! I have lived the following three experiences, at the same time and it nothing short of sucks!
If you are experiencing any of the following states and you don’t want to stay there, KEEP READING!
Have you been pushing so hard that you forgot you don’t have to do it all?
Your day feels like you are walking through slow motion mud, and you still don’t have time to get all the things done you want to.
You are in a constant state of stress, anxiety and irritation
Great news is that you have the tools available to you make subtle changes and create some real magic.
YOU DON”T HAVE TO DO IT ALL… I am sure you have heard the term the universe has your back… it does and it also has the backs of the other 7 billion people on Earth, so if you loosen your grip, just a bit… humankind will not implode.
I know it can be scary as shit to release control over the things that affect you and the ones you love… Recovering TYPE A, right here!!! But the reality is that you are not serving yourself or the ones you love by trying to handle it all. Let someone else do the dishes – I swear, no one will die if there are spots on the glasses because they aren’t dried the way you would dry them.
When you are evaluating whether you need to do a task or it is can be released, ask yourself these questions… 1. If I don’t handle this, will someone be irreparably harmed? 2. In a year from now, will it matter? 3. Is there something I can use this time for that will serve me in a higher and better way?
Usually, the answers to 1 and 2 are super loud no’s and 3 is almost always a yes… this is applicable to your business as well as your personal life.
I used to be so controlling that I would make my kids let me read the text message they were sending back to my mom, to make sure it said exactly what I thought it should. Yes, I have come a long way. Now, I just hope she can understand their teenage grunting means we are stopping with pizza!
The support offered by the universe does not intend for you to be in a constant state of struggle and micro managing.
Open yourself to allow a little more Divine Feminine Flow into your life and see what amazing magic rides the wave that comes with it. Each of us has led plenty of lives full of suffering and bullshit. This incarnation is your opportunity to create joy and truly immerse yourself in it!!
DOES IT REALLY MATTER?
It is truly awe inspiring how big of a deal we can make over really inconsequential things… Catch me in just the right energy and I fall into this one…
A few weeks ago, I bought ingredients to make the cookies that my son had requested, which included white chocolate chips. That evening, I saw my husband wandering through the house with a trail of white chocolate chips marking his path like bread crumbs.
I lost my shit (I know completely no reason and really ungoddess like – but it’s real life here.)
It was time to ask my self question #2. In a year from now, will it matter? OF COURSE NOT!!!! I was completely projecting frustration from an unrelated issue onto this one.
Thank Goddess my husband is pretty easy going and just looked at me like my head may spin around, picked up his dropped chips and wondered if I had finally reached the edge of sanity.
The reality is that most things we get upset about are truly of little consequence… they are just irritants in our environment.
The Divine Feminine assists us in identifying those things that really don’t matter and allowing the flow to just carry them away… annoyance and all.
When I lean away from the irritation and let Divine Feminine flow come in, I am reclaiming my sovereignty. I am re-establishing my control over me…. and there is real power in that!
WHAT IS THE ENERGY YOU WANT TO EXIST IN?
Are you in a constant state of stress, anxiety and irritation. This isn’t the state that the universe and nature have designed for you… despite some of us having bad ass Resting Bitch Face!
The natural state is one of ease, flow and grace. That is the exact experience that inviting in your divine feminine can usher in for you.
Don’t we all have that relative who wants to complain about everything… It’s raining, it’s too sunny, too cold, too hot…. Seriously! That personality can definitely trigger a little irritation, but they are the perfect person to practice a little divine feminine exercise.
My exercise for letting go of irritation, stress and anxiety…. First – I take a really deep breath… belly breath, all the way in. As I slowly exhale, I imagine the situation, as if I was a child. 6 year old Jami is adorable, with lady bug stud earrings… soak in the details. Then I construct what my 6 year old Jami would think, say or do – it is never as jaded as the adult asshat I can be.
I continue to breath in the energy of love and compassion that always comes into my field from this exercise. Just that small pivot is plenty to shift my perceptions of the situation that is creating whatever undesired emotion I am experiencing at the moment.
Try this exercise and let me know what your experience is!
Now that you have this amazing new awareness, let’s check out the complimentary Wealthy Goddess Assessment and see what is showing up for you! Email me at [email protected] to claim your spot.
